"I wonder if these people are really going to keep me."
Behaviors associated with this issue:
- Approach/avoidance conflicts in relationships, especially with parents, but occurring also in relationships with peers
- Rejecting others before they can be rejected ("I will 'quit' before I get fired)
- Negative behavior to speed anticipated rejection and test commitment of others
- Attempts to be "perfect" to avoid rejection
Stay tuned tomorrow for Wonder #3...